Sermon preached June 28, 2015. Texts: Lamentations 3:22-26 and Mark 5:21-43.
I’ve been thinking a lot, the last couple of days, about beloved friends and former parishioners who are horrified by the news of the Supreme Court’s decision Friday to legalize marriage for all. For me and many, many of my friends and family, this has been unutterably good news. But for others, it’s awful. Unbearable.
I’ve especially remembered a Bible study discussion of one of the Old Testament’s passages about exile, when several of the people there agreed that that’s what they felt like: that they were in exile. In exile from the country of their childhood and youth, their young adulthood and their middle age. In exile from a country in which blue laws ensured that Sundays would be kept as Sabbaths; a country in which being an American and being a Christian were almost synonymous; a country in which a girl who got pregnant in high school went away to live with an “aunt,” and even if people knew where she’d really gone, they didn’t speak of it so as not to embarrass her family; a country in which being heterosexual was so much the norm (and so entirely normative) that homosexuality was spoken of only in whispers.
There was right, and there was wrong, and that’s what the church was all about.
Now here they are, living in a country that looks very different, and even churches seem to have given up teaching right and wrong, instead going on and on about loving everyone and even having the gall to suggest that not accepting sinful people might be sinful itself.
The grief is real. The holding on to what was taught and lived feels desperate. The fear of what will come in a country that has turned from those traditional understandings of right and wrong—whether those teachings be about what a family looks like, or the appropriate relationships between races, or the role of Christians in elected positions, or even the ‘meaning’ of the Confederate flag—that fear is real. What kind of country are we leaving for our grandchildren?
My heart goes out to them. I hear their pain. I wish I knew what to say to relieve their fears, their grief, their anger. I imagine how hurt they must feel when around them people are rejoicing at the very things that make them most afraid and most angry.
These are the times, of course, when pastors turn to scripture. And so I want to talk about the Mark text we just heard, about Jesus’ two very different healings, interwoven in this scripture.
First comes the call from Jairus, one of the leaders of the synagogue, to heal his young daughter. He was a leader in the synagogue—the group of people who had been expending a lot of effort to prove that Jesus was up to no good. Jairus had a vested interest in adhering to the party line of the Jewish authorities. But when his daughter was desperately ill, he came to Jesus for help.
And then there was the woman with the hemorrhage—a condition that she’d had for 12 years. Mark doesn’t make a big deal out of it, but his first readers would have known that a woman who had been bleeding for 12 years had been “unclean” for 12 years. Anyone who so much as touched her or touched her clothing or her belongings would need to go through several days’ worth of ritual cleansing before they could be part of the world again. Talk about being in exile! She didn’t dare speak to Jesus; she just touched the hem of his robe.
Imagine yourself as this woman for a moment. Imagine how lonely her life was, how desperate for healing she was. And then imagine that here is a prophet, a healer, and there’s a chance, a small possibility, that he might be able to help her. Imagine crawling on the road, weak because of the loss of blood, and reaching out—reaching out to touch just the tip of your finger to the hem of his robe.
Imagine what it must have felt like when her finger—your finger—came into contact with Jesus’ robe and the power came surging into you. Like electricity, maybe. Like wind, like the breath of life. Like joy. Your life is changed, utterly. You are healed. You are whole. You have been transformed. Hallelujah!
And then we’re back, in Mark, to Jairus and his daughter. (It’s interesting how Mark interweaves the two stories—kind of underscores that we should read them together, doesn’t it?) This is a 12-year-old girl. She’s on the cusp of becoming a woman, very likely soon to be betrothed and even married. She’s at the opposite end of the spectrum from the woman who had been hemorrhaging for as many years as this child has been alive. At this point in her life she should be looking forward to all that is coming.
But she’s ill. Dying. And her father has reached out to someone his colleagues would say he shouldn’t even be talking with—reached out to this itinerant teacher, this roving healer, to come and heal her. “Come and lay your hands on her,” he says to Jesus, “so that she may be made well, and live.”
Imagine that you are this father. Feel his desperation—he is so distraught by his daughter’s illness that he’s willing to reach out to someone not approved of by his traditional religious community. The man agrees to come, but it takes so long that the news comes of his daughter’s death. Ohh! My little girl! Ohh! Oh, God!
But Jesus is calm. “Do not fear,” he says to you, “only believe.”
And sure enough, when you arrive at the house, Jesus tells everyone not to worry, that the child is just sleeping. And he goes to her and says, “Talitha cum,” which means ‘Little girl, get up.’ Life is not over. Give her something to eat!
These two healings are very different. Among the things that these two stories have in common, though, are two of the few Greek words I remember from my studies in seminary. The first is pistis (noun), pisteue (verb). We generally translate the word as faith when it’s a noun and believe when it’s a verb, but another translation for both forms is trust. Jesus says to the hemorrhaging woman, “Daughter, your pistis—your trust—has made you well.” And he says to Jairus, “Don’t fear, just pisteue—trust.”
I like to use the word trust when it comes to pistis or pisteue in the scriptures because I think sometimes we’ve got the wrong emphasis on “faith” and “believing.” It’s like we think of faith as an intellectual agreement to certain tenets. When we hear, “You must have faith,” or “You must believe,” we think there are certain things that we must agree are true. But when Jesus turns to Jairus and says, “Don’t be afraid, just pisteue,” he’s asking Jairus to trust him. Just trust him. And when he says to the woman who touched his garment, “Your pistis has made you well,” he’s not saying that she has believed certain things about him but simply that she has trusted him.
The second word that the two stories have in common is the concept of sozo, which means both healing and saving. “My little daughter is at the point of death,” Jairus said. “Come and lay your hands on her, so that she may be made well”—that she may be sozo’d—saved, healed, made whole.
“Daughter,” Jesus said to the hemorrhaging woman, “your trust has sozo’d you—saved you, healed you well, made you whole.” It’s not just physical healing, and it’s not just spiritual “saving.” It’s making whole what was broken, giving life to what was unresponsive, bringing hope where there has been despair. It’s not just a return to health but a move forward into wholeness, for when Jesus sozo’s us, we are always transformed.
And that is the gospel this morning for the people who feel that they are in exile … and for the people who feel that their exile is over. Trust, and being made whole.
Your trust in God has made you whole. Don’t be afraid, only trust.
Whether you feel that you have been in exile for years—not really part of the community, looked on as “less than,” and avoided as unclean—and now Christ’s power has come into you and you are rejoicing … or whether you feel that life as you’ve known it and looked forward to it has come to an end … the key is trust.
Trust. Not worrying about what exactly is right and what is wrong. Only trust.
Talitha cum. It’s going to be okay. It may not look like what you expected, because you have been sozo’d and your life has been transformed, but it’s going to be okay. More than okay.
Talitha cum.
For the steadfast love of the Lord never ceases.
God’s mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning.
“The LORD is my portion,” says my soul, “therefore I will hope in the LORD.”
I will trust in the Lord.
Talitha cum. You are made whole.
Amen.